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Break free from overthinking. Build the life that truly calls you.

The EVOLVE approach includes 3 months of 1:1 mindset and life coaching to quiet self-doubt, find clear direction and reshape what’s possible for you.

  • 1:1 custom coaching designed to end paralysis by analysis so you stop stalling and start moving forward

  • Practical tools to build trust in your decisions and act boldly

  • Personal support to redefine success and take charge of your next chapter

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Who is it for?

We are all a blend of many different parts.  How we cope, push, hide and hope varies. You do not fit into one singular box but If any of these archetypes hit close to home, you're exactly who EVOLVE was built for. 

Always chasing the next goal, rarely stopping to breathe. You measure worth by output, but satisfaction never sticks. Achievement gives you a rush, but it fades fast. Stillness feels like failure.  Driven yet unfulfilled, you keep running, believing happiness waits at the next finish line.

THE RUNNER

You long for fulfillment—career growth, meaningful relationships, a richer life—yet invisible blocks keep holding you back. Overthinking, perfectionism, fear of rejection, and self-sabotage create an unseen wall between you and what you want. Despite clarity and desire, something inside keeps you stuck just short of your dreams.

THE WALL BUILDER

Restless and always chasing change—new jobs, homes, or relationships—hoping the next big shift will satisfy. You make bold moves  but no matter what you switch up, real contentment remains out of reach and you wonder, “Why am I not happy here?”

THE HOPPER

Haunted by an inner voice demanding flawlessness, you overthink and hold impossibly high standards, keeping you trapped in cycles of paralysis. Success comes but satisfaction stays out of reach.  Perfection has become a barrier not a goal.

THE PERFECTIONIST

Settled in what’s familiar and “fine,” you feel guilty for wanting more. Ambition seems risky or selfish, so you stay put, convinced it’s better not to rock the boat. Safe routines protect you, but mediocrity quietly drains your drive and sense of possibility.

THE SAFETY SEEKER

You prioritize others’ approval, often at the cost of your own desires and values. Boundaries blur as you say yes to avoid conflict or rejection. This leaves you burnt out and dims your true self. You want fulfillment but feel stuck in self-sacrifice.

THE PLEASER

Regardless of which of the archetypes or experiences feels like your story, what matters is your readiness to move forward. When we work together you’ll gain practical tools and real world shifts that help break you free from old patterns, gain confidence in your voice and build clarity and courage to create meaningful change in your life and work.

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  • Hear From my Clients

    “I’m shocked how much we get to in our sessions. Go deep sea diving into your foundational beliefs and thought patterns. She brings it all up and helps you create your own life preserver.”

    S.S. (Nevada)

  • Hear from my clients

    “What I love most is that with your coaching, a thoughtful person can quickly move towards goals. I feel as though the solutions offered spoke directly to my personal needs and the way you break down neural pathways and the power of habits has been life changing. Knowing there is real science behind my patterns, the energy analysis and core values work has made me less reactive and more attuned to the agency within within me to make decisions”

    Y.G. (New Jersey)

  • Hear from my clients

    “I came to you feeling stuck on autopilot and you helped me peel back my armor and layers of conditioning. The time we spent uncovering my values gave me clarity on what truly mattered to me and how I can move forward with intention. What surprised me most was how you encouraged me to pause and examine why I think and act the way I do and provided the space for me to gently unravel my thoughts.”

    S.A. (London)

  • Hear from my clients

    “I feel like a light has switched on. I feel stronger clear, and empowered. I communicate my needs and set good boundaries. I’m surprised about how much I’ve learned about myself through our sessions. A game changer. I am grateful.”

    A.K. (California)

Here’s what to expect

when we work together

You trust yourself to lead with bold moves and speak confidently without waiting for  anyone’s permission. You show up in spaces where you used to stay quiet because your ideas truly matter.

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You finally have peace of mind and can get a good night’s sleep without the 3 a.m. loop replaying every decision, and asking “what if”.  You wake up ready to take action instead of unconsciously self-sabotaging your next move. 

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You stop exhausting yourself trying to control everything, clearing your mind so you can direct your energy on what moves the needle without the constant drain.

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Your relationships deepen because you stop managing how others see you and instead show up open, grounded, and fully present for your children, loved ones, colleagues and more.

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You put yourself first without guilt and stop apologizing for wanting more and start living out loud without hesitation, claiming the fulfillment you deserve.

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This is a 3 month co-created journey, built around 8 foundational pillars listed below.

The EVOLVE approach meets you exactly where you are and grows with you. It isn’t a one-size-fits-all program. Together we turn awareness and insights into action using tools that blend mindset work, values alignment and science backed coaching.  Think of it as translating self-awareness into real momentum.

THE EVOLVE Approach

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We start with the ELI™ Assessment. A powerful mirror that shows how you react, lead and respond to life.  In your personalized debrief, you’ll see invisible patterns that drain or drive your energy and learn how to shift towards the ones that help you thrive with more clarity and calm.

The Physics of How You Operate

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You’ll get clear on what truly matters and why. We uncover core values that fuel you, so your choices stop feeling forced and start feeling aligned. Decisions become simpler and motivation lasts longer.

Your Inner Compass

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You’ll get back authority over your own narrative as we identify those inner voices that pull you in different directions, the critic, the perfectionist and the over-thinker. You’ll learn to work with them instead of being run by them. 

Your Committee Within

Emotional Mastery

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You’ll learn how to recognize and use emotions as data, not drama.  When you can meet feelings without judgment they stop hijacking your decisions and start fueling your growth.

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We’ll challenge the old beliefs that have quietly shaped your limits. You’ll build new narratives that match who you are becoming, not who you’ve been told to be.

Updating the Story You Live By

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As mental noise quiets and self-trust strengthens, what you truly want becomes clear. We’ll turn that clarity into practical, doable steps, so your vision stops living in your head and starts taking shape in your life.

Your Vision in Motion

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Change doesn’t have to feel like a fight. Using what science teaches about motivation and momentum, you’ll build habits that align with how your brain naturally leans and adapts. Progress feels steady, not forced.

Working With Your Brain

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Breakthroughs are only the beginning. You’ll integrate new ways of thinking and being through reflection, accountability and action, so the changes you make don’t fade after the “aha” moment.  They become who you are.

Sustainable Transformation

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What’s Included in Your 3 Month Journey

The ELI™ Assessment & Personalized Debrief

You’ll complete a research-backed assessment that reveals how you naturally respond to challenges. Both in everyday moments and under pressure. In your one-on-one debrief, we’ll break down what this means for you and how you lead, make decisions and show up in relationships. You’ll walk away with clear insights about what’s been draining your energy and what patterns you want to shift. 

These aren’t surface level conversations. Each 60 minute session is tailored to where you are and what you need most. We’ll dig into the real stuff around what’s holding you back, what you are ready to change, and how to make that stick. Between sessions, you’ll have space to practice and integrate what we discover together. 

Six 1:1 Coaching Sessions

Based on what emerges in our work together, you’ll receive additional assessment, reflections and practical exercises designed specifically for your growth. These aren’t busy work. They are targeted tools that help you build new habits, challenge old patterns and keep momentum between our sessions. 

Customized Tools and Exercises

You’re not doing this alone. Between sessions, you’ll have access to check-ins and guidance as you navigate the real world application of what we are building together.

Ongoing Support

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Your Coach

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I’m Shakila Majid, a certified life coach and someone who has lived through more transitions than most. Immigrant, eldest daughter, former corporate professional, tandem spouse, and now a single mom running my own business.

I know what it feels like to question your path, lose your sense of self, or feel stuck in patterns you didn’t choose, overthinking, perfectionism, people-pleasing, fear of change, or doing everything “right” yet still feeling unfulfilled.

My coaching is for those who are ready to break old cycles and finally step into clarity, confidence, and real self-trust.

Through my EVOLVE approach, we quiet self-doubt, uncover the programming that’s been running your life, and build new patterns that support who you’re becoming. Using a mix of science-backed tools, mindset work, emotional mastery, and the Energy Leadership™ Assessment, we turn insight into real, lasting change.


If you're ready to stop overthinking and start moving toward the life that’s been calling to you, I’m here to help you get there.

Qualifications: iPEC certified Life Coach,  Energy Leadership™ Master Practitioner, C.O.R.E Dynamics Transitions Specialist, Applied Neuroscience Certified Coach

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YOUR TRANSFORMATION TIMELINE

You’ll complete your Energy Leadership™ Assessment and personalized debrief, gaining clear insights into your energy patterns and how they impact your decisions and relationships.

FIRST MONTH

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You’ll be actively working with your inner voices and emotional mastery tools, gaining authority over your narrative and starting to shift old patterns with practical exercises tailored to your growth.

SECOND MONTH

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You’ll have a clear, actionable vision in motion with steady momentum, supported by new habits aligned with your brain’s natural rhythms and ongoing guidance to sustain your transformation.

THIRD MONTH

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Your Path to Transformation Pricing Options

Unlock lasting change with EVOLVE coaching - $3,200 for 3 months personalized coaching paid upfront

You can also spread your investment across 3 monthly payments of $1,150 for a total of $3450.  

If you have questions regarding more flexible pricing options, please reach out to me.

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  • Hear from my clients

    “Our sessions leave me lighter, more centered, and honestly, seen in a way I didn’t expect from “coaching.” I call her “my girl Shakila” for a reason- because yes, she’s a coach, but she’s also someone who truly gets it. And she gets you, even before you fully get yourself.”

    T.C. (Texas)

  • hear from my clients

    “I was facing burnout in the workplace and anxiety with different relationship dynamics. I was struggling with navigating challenging conversations in both my person and professional life. Shakila understood the way I operated and tailored her approach to fit my personality. She is personable and real which made it easy to be vulnerable. Our conversations were life giving and motivating. Since coaching with Shakila I speak my truth with confidence.”

    K.W. (Texas)

  • hear from my clients

    “This week has been a highlight of my career, and I really don’t think I could have done it without you.”

    C.L. (Colorado)

  • Hear from my clients

    “Shakila’s no-nonsense style of being both comforting and challenging in the same package is refreshing. Her ability to get right to the core of what is holding you back is remarkable. You know when you coach with Shakila, she is 100% advocating for your well-being and success.”

    G.R. (Canada)

  • Hear from my clients

    “I think of Shakila Majid as my clarity coach. I came to work with Shakila during a time of converging transitions - changes in my family life, a move, a career change, and adjusting to the inevitable challenges of home-schooling a teenager. I can rely on Shakila to buoy me when I struggle to keep myself accountable for my dreams. Because of our partnership, I am more clear, more confident, and able to make more changes that matter most.”

    M.B. (Colorado)

  • Hear from my clients

    “Without a doubt, everyone should work with Shakila…whether you think you need to or not. Every decision I make now several months later is influenced by the work we did together.”

    K.G. (New Jersey)

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