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IQ got you qualified, EMotional Intelligence Got you Noticed. Today, Neither is enough for a world that won’t stand still.

In a world where information is infinite and technology can perfect any process. Deep Self-knowledge is not a soft skill. It is the edge that can’t be outsourced or replicated. Self trust is the foundation of every decision, action and relationship you invest in.

The EVOLVE approach to building self trust:

• 1:1 coaching built around your specific patterns, not a generic programme

• Science backed tools to build the internal scaffolding to decide boldly and adapt

with confidence

• Concrete shifts in how you lead yourself, your work and your relationships

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You’re running outdated code in a world that keeps updating around you.

Who is it for?

You’re the most capable person in the room. You know it. They know it. And you still went home and questioned every word you said. The tools that got you here were built for a different world. The one who thrives in this one isn’t the most qualified or the most emotionally intelligent. It’s the one who knows herself well enough to trust her own judgment when there’s no clear answer and no time to wait for one. If any of these patterns feel familiar, you’re exactly who EVOLVE was built for.

You’ve built your success on reading rooms and delivering for everyone around you. You’re exceptional at it. But you’ve spent so long navigating by other people’s signals that you’ve lost track of your own. In a world that demands fast, clear decisions, you can’t lead from a self you don’t know.

THE Pleaser

You hit the goal. You felt it for a week. Now there’s another one, because stopping means facing the question you’ve been outrunning. In a world moving this fast, with this much information and AI making every process smarter, the only thing that can’t be replicated is your judgment. But you can’t trust your judgment if you’ve never stopped long enough to find it.

THE runner

You know exactly what you want and you’re capable of getting there. But your own standards keep moving the goalposts. In a world where AI can perfect any process, perfectionism is no longer your edge. Judgment is. And you can’t access your judgment when your own mind won’t let you trust it.

THE Perfectionist

Whichever pattern feels most like yours, the question is the same: are you ready to stop navigating by an outdated rule book? When we work together, you build the self trust to move from your own ground. One that’s rooted in today’s reality, not the one you were trained for.

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  • Hear From my Clients

    “I’m shocked how much we get to in our sessions. Go deep sea diving into your foundational beliefs and thought patterns. She brings it all up and helps you create your own life preserver.”

    S.S. (Nevada)

  • Hear from my clients

    “What I love most is that with your coaching, a thoughtful person can quickly move towards goals. I feel as though the solutions offered spoke directly to my personal needs and the way you break down neural pathways and the power of habits has been life changing. Knowing there is real science behind my patterns, the energy analysis and core values work has made me less reactive and more attuned to the agency within within me to make decisions”

    Y.G. (New Jersey)

  • Hear from my clients

    “I came to you feeling stuck on autopilot and you helped me peel back my armor and layers of conditioning. The time we spent uncovering my values gave me clarity on what truly mattered to me and how I can move forward with intention. What surprised me most was how you encouraged me to pause and examine why I think and act the way I do and provided the space for me to gently unravel my thoughts.”

    S.A. (London)

  • Hear from my clients

    “I feel like a light has switched on. I feel stronger clear, and empowered. I communicate my needs and set good boundaries. I’m surprised about how much I’ve learned about myself through our sessions. A game changer. I am grateful.”

    A.K. (California)

Here’s what Self Trust

Actually Looks like

You’re in the room, everyone looks to you, and for the first time you don’t hedge. You just say it. Decisions come from you, not consensus.

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It’s 3am and instead of spiralling you realize, that’s not anxiety. It’s direction. You go back to sleep and wake up ready to move. Not manage.

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Someone asks what you think. You don’t scan the room first. You already know without second guessing.

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You get home and you’re actually there. Not replaying the meeting, not managing tomorrow. Just present and connected.

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When the ground shifts, and it will, you don’t scramble. You get still, get clear on what principles guide you, and move.

This isn’t about becoming someone different. It’s about trusting who you already are clearly enough to make judgment calls that no algorithm, no consensus and no amount of information can make for you.

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THE EVOLVE Approach

This is a 3 month co-created journey, built around 8 foundational pillars listed below.

The EVOLVE approach meets you exactly where you are and grows with you. It isn’t a one-size-fits-all program. Together we turn awareness and insights into action using tools that blend mindset work, values alignment and science backed coaching.  Think of it as translating self-awareness into real momentum.

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We start with the ELI™ Assessment. A powerful mirror that shows how you react, lead and respond to life.  In your personalized debrief, you’ll see invisible patterns that drain or drive your energy and learn how to shift towards the ones that help you thrive with more clarity and calm.

The Physics of How You Operate

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You’ll get clear on what truly matters and why. We uncover core values that fuel you, so your choices stop feeling forced and start feeling aligned. Decisions become simpler and motivation lasts longer.

Your Inner Compass

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You’ll get back authority over your own narrative as we identify those inner voices that pull you in different directions, the critic, the perfectionist and the over-thinker. You’ll learn to work with them instead of being run by them. 

Your Committee Within

Emotional Mastery

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You’ll learn how to recognize and use emotions as data, not drama.  When you can meet feelings without judgment they stop hijacking your decisions and start fueling your growth.

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We’ll challenge the old beliefs that have quietly shaped your limits. You’ll build new narratives that match who you are becoming, not who you’ve been told to be.

Updating the Story You Live By

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As mental noise quiets and self-trust strengthens, what you truly want becomes clear. We’ll turn that clarity into practical, doable steps, so your vision stops living in your head and starts taking shape in your life.

Your Vision in Motion

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Change doesn’t have to feel like a fight. Using what science teaches about motivation and momentum, you’ll build habits that align with how your brain naturally leans and adapts. Progress feels steady, not forced.

Working With Your Brain

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Breakthroughs are only the beginning. You’ll integrate new ways of thinking and being through reflection, accountability and action, so the changes you make don’t fade after the “aha” moment.  They become who you are.

Sustainable Transformation

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What’s Included in Your 3 Month Journey

You’ll complete a research-backed assessment that reveals how you naturally respond to challenges. Both in everyday moments and under pressure. In your one-on-one debrief, we’ll break down what this means for you and how you lead, make decisions and show up in relationships. You’ll walk away with clear insights about what’s been draining your energy and what patterns you want to shift. 

The ELI™ Assessment & Personalized Debrief

These aren’t surface level conversations. Each 60 minute session is tailored to where you are and what you need most. We’ll dig into the real stuff around what’s holding you back, what you are ready to change, and how to make that stick. Between sessions, you’ll have space to practice and integrate what we discover together. 

Six 1:1 Coaching Sessions

Based on what emerges in our work together, you’ll receive additional assessment, reflections and practical exercises designed specifically for your growth. These aren’t busy work. They are targeted tools that help you build new habits, challenge old patterns and keep momentum between our sessions. 

Customized Tools and Exercises

You’re not doing this alone. Between sessions, you’ll have access to check-ins and guidance as you navigate the real world application of what we are building together.

Ongoing Support

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Your Coach

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I spent years in environments where performing was currency and knowing yourself was considered a luxury. I know exactly what that costs. And I know what changes when you finally stop paying it.

I’m Shakila Majid — iPEC certified coach, Energy Leadership™ Master Practitioner and someone who has navigated more transitions than most. Immigrant. Eldest daughter. Former corporate professional. Single mum building something of her own.

I know what it feels like to do everything right and still look up one day not recognizing yourself. To be excellent at performing a version of your life while the real one waits quietly in the background.

The clients I work with aren’t failing. They’re running outdated code in a system that keeps updating around them. My work goes underneath the patterns, the beliefs, the identity quietly running the show, and builds something that actually holds.

Because self trust isn’t a soft skill. It’s the foundation every good decision you’ll ever make is built on.

Qualifications: iPEC certified Life Coach,  Energy Leadership™ Master Practitioner, C.O.R.E Dynamics Transitions Specialist, Applied Neuroscience Certified Coach

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YOUR TRANSFORMATION TIMELINE

You’ll complete your Energy Leadership™ Assessment and personalized debrief, gaining clear insights into your energy patterns and how they impact your decisions and relationships.

FIRST MONTH

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You’ll be actively working with your inner voices and emotional mastery tools, gaining authority over your narrative and starting to shift old patterns with practical exercises tailored to your growth.

SECOND MONTH

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You’ll have a clear, actionable vision in motion with steady momentum, supported by new habits aligned with your brain’s natural rhythms and ongoing guidance to sustain your transformation.

THIRD MONTH

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Your Path to Transformation Pricing Options

Unlock lasting change with EVOLVE coaching - $3,200 for 3 months personalized coaching paid upfront

You can also spread your investment across 3 monthly payments of $1,150 for a total of $3450.  

If you have questions regarding more flexible pricing options, please reach out to me.

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  • Hear from my clients

    “Our sessions leave me lighter, more centered, and honestly, seen in a way I didn’t expect from “coaching.” I call her “my girl Shakila” for a reason- because yes, she’s a coach, but she’s also someone who truly gets it. And she gets you, even before you fully get yourself.”

    T.C. (Texas)

  • hear from my clients

    “I was facing burnout in the workplace and anxiety with different relationship dynamics. I was struggling with navigating challenging conversations in both my person and professional life. Shakila understood the way I operated and tailored her approach to fit my personality. She is personable and real which made it easy to be vulnerable. Our conversations were life giving and motivating. Since coaching with Shakila I speak my truth with confidence.”

    K.W. (Texas)

  • hear from my clients

    “This week has been a highlight of my career, and I really don’t think I could have done it without you.”

    C.L. (Colorado)

  • Hear from my clients

    “Shakila’s no-nonsense style of being both comforting and challenging in the same package is refreshing. Her ability to get right to the core of what is holding you back is remarkable. You know when you coach with Shakila, she is 100% advocating for your well-being and success.”

    G.R. (Canada)

  • Hear from my clients

    “I think of Shakila Majid as my clarity coach. I came to work with Shakila during a time of converging transitions - changes in my family life, a move, a career change, and adjusting to the inevitable challenges of home-schooling a teenager. I can rely on Shakila to buoy me when I struggle to keep myself accountable for my dreams. Because of our partnership, I am more clear, more confident, and able to make more changes that matter most.”

    M.B. (Colorado)

  • Hear from my clients

    “Without a doubt, everyone should work with Shakila…whether you think you need to or not. Every decision I make now several months later is influenced by the work we did together.”

    K.G. (New Jersey)